Confidence

It's no secret that the number 1 most attractive quality in a man is self confidence. Now don't confuse this with arrogance, CONFIDENCE. Take some time to think about what the difference between arrogance and confidence really means. I believe true confidence is something you have all the time. It can't be turned on and off like a light switch it is just who you are, you are confident.

Most women seem to give a different definition of what they think confidence in a man is. Some women think if a man dresses nice or has a nice car he must be confident. Others think if a man can speak well in front of others or command a crowds attention he must be confident. I think you can dress well, drive a nice car, or commanda crowds attention and be confident. However, these things are not what makes you confident.

If you ask me what what confidence is I would tell you flat out you already don't have it. So how do you get it you ask? I need to be open to suggestion, and not be defensive. You need to stand up for what you believe and not just agree with people to be liked. You need to be able to admit when you are wrong and defend when you are right. Although when you are right you can't force your beliefs on others.

Ok, so now you know what confidence is so how does standing up for what you believe in make you more attractive to women? That's the best part about it confidence, it just works. If you are confident in your life things you want and desire just have a way of finding you. People, not just women are attracted to confidence. You may find your self being offered a more lucrative position at work because your boss notices your new found confidence. Women will feel secure with you knowing your not just a push over or telling them what they want to hear to get them.

The fact is, the confident men more often than not get the girl, because the confident man has something about him. Once one women sees you are desired by other women it will create a snow ball affect. Before you know it you will have gone from begging for the attention of women to turning it away.

If your not sure how where to start the journey to self confidence start in the mirror. Are your over weight, are your clothes in fasion, is your home environment clean? You have better answered no,yes, and yes. These simple changes are easy and inexpensive in not free. Can't afford a gym membership, then run around the block. Old and out dated clothes? Go but a pair of levis, a plain t-shirt and a pair of converse. It's a classic look and very inexpensive. I shouldn't even need to tell you to clean up your house. No women want to have sex on a pile of dirty laundry.

Now that you have some guide lines on what it takes to be confident go out there and get started. Don't worry about women at the moment you need to lay some solid ground work first. If you do these things you women will find there way to you.